You’ve heard the phrase, “Communication is key.”

I’d say it’s more of a fact; it’s true.

Communication is a cornerstone of success both in high school and beyond. 

Here is an example: You and your friend get into an argument. 

Do you really think giving each other a cold shoulder will help you two make up? That’s childish. 

When people act this way, it honestly irritates me, especially considering everyone in this high school is older than thirteen.

We need to learn as a generation how and when to properly talk to others.

Sharing and explaining your thoughts and feelings is important so that others can help you (or the other way around) to the best of their ability and try to understand from your point of view.

In a high school setting, knowing how to communicate is needed for collaborating on group projects, participating in class discussions, and seeking help from teachers. 

If you know how and when to talk to people, you will feel more secure, comfortable, and confident.

Beyond a school setting, mature communication prepares teenagers for the challenges to come in adult life. 

This skill can help you in securing a job, maintaining a healthy relationship, and healthy self-expression. Or not. It really is up to you.

Communication is also about your audience. Who are you talking to?

You usually don’t speak the same way to your teacher as you do to your friend or with your boss the same way as your mother.

Strong communicators are able to recognize and match their approach with their audience whether it be their sibling, another student, or anyone else.

Body language is another part. You want to be respectful to other people and show them you are listening. This helps you connect with others better.

If you can share your thoughts and feelings clearly and respectfully, you’ll have better results and a happier life in school, work and with friends.

After learning to communicate well, students also learn to listen, consider different perspectives, and make wise decisions.

Not only that, but it also can save you from uncomfortable situations. If you can’t speak up for yourself, I can’t say that you’ll always have fun. 

In general, mature communication helps in developing critical thinking and problem-solving skills.

It helps people understand each other and feel empathy for each other. This is necessary in our diverse world. 

So listen with your eyes as well as your ears.