You can make yourself happy
Loneliness can take over people’s’ lives and makes them feel worthless.
Some people turn to other things to guarantee that they won’t ever feel this way again.
Some people believe that they must have a boyfriend or girlfriend to stave off loneliness.
But you don’t.
Learning how to be independent is a key life skill.
If you feel as if you can’t be without a partner because you don’t want to be alone, you haven’t found a good reason to begin a relationship. You don’t need someone to always be there for you to be happy.
You don’t have to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend to be happy.
You don’t have to stay with someone who treats you badly just so you don’t have to be alone. If they aren’t treating you the way you deserve, then you don’t need to be with them.
The feeling of loneliness will never match the amount of hurt you will feel in the long run if you stay in the unhealthy relationship. It isn’t worth it.
You know what you deserve and what you are capable of. You know what your future can hold and what you want your future to hold.
People come into your life for a reason and they leave for a reason as well.
I know that it is hard for some to understand and come to the realization that a certain someone isn’t supposed to be in their life anymore.
It is hard to get used to living without someone who has been a huge part of your life for such a long time, but if it isn’t meant to be, it isn’t meant to be, and you have to believe everything will work out in the end.
Loneliness may absorb your happiness; sometimes for much longer than it needs to.
You can make yourself happy, though.
You don’t need someone else to be the happiness in your life.
Don’t give up and keep moving forward.
I live by the saying, “Life’s too short to be anything but happy.”
You can’t waste time being unhappy because you’ll never get those minutes, hours or even days back.
Most importantly, live them with a smile on your face.
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